Perhaps not fifty shades of grey, but at least five or six. And you don't really need more than that, at least not on a wedding bow tie. This exquisite grid pattern is truly elegant, and low-key in the exact way that wedding fashion "experts" tend to advocate. This will be drop dead dapper with a dark grey suit or frock coat, a creamy rose boutonniere and a coral handkerchief. As far as neck fashion goes, a bow tie is a very handsome choice. It also adds a little bit of playfulness in the mix which can ease up some of the nerve wrecking wedding solemnity.